One thing i cannot understand is the saying "Men ain't shit". I find it hard to believe there are sisters out there that is willing to judge the whole male species because of their misfortunes with the men they've dealt with. I expect to hear "Men ain't shit" from the younger sisters basically because they do not yet understand what is need for a relationship to survive. But when i hear my older sisters proclaim "Men ain't shit", i often laugh and start to wonder. If you are 22 and older, you should not be saying "Men ain't shit". If you find yourself saying this, then you should really sit down and analyze the type of men you are dealing with.
Relationships are like houses. If the foundation is weak, the structure will not stand very long, it will eventually crumble from the wear and tear of outside forces. Many relationship, IMO, fail because they are lacking a solid foundation. A solid foundation is good communication. If there is good communication and an understand between two attracting parties, the chances of success is greatly improved. Good communication is why couples stay together for 30 and 40 years. Good communication and an understanding amongst two parties are the basic building blocks of a solid relationship. How many of you are lacking the basic building blocks in your relationships now??
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